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A
clarification in these
uncertain times

DOCTORS become nurses. Engineers, even those with some successful
contracting jobs, become caregivers.
Such are the phenomena sweeping the country. They indicate
dramatic, even frantic, efforts to adjust to equally dramatic
situations, and, yes, even to pure survival.
I will just let others to say how bad things in our country
have become that many people are driven to make these radical
changes and go abroad.
My concern is to ask how are we taking care of these persons,
not only materially but also -- and rather more importantly
-- spiritually and morally.
This to me is the more important point to tackle. Let's not
forget that we here are dealing with persons, not goods or
commodities that can be bundled and shipped anywhere, anytime.
These are persons who have feelings, dreams and aspirations
that need to be respected, who have families that need to
be protected. Ultimately, they are persons whose spiritual
life should always be taken care of.
In number, they cannot be ignored. And they continue to increase.
Even I know many of them personally. And this has led me to
thinking a lot.
Obviously, I would prefer that they all stay here in our
country, stay with their families, and they all be happy and
secure. But alas this has become wishful thinking.
The overwhelming reality is that we cannot stop these migrations
and changes in profession. We just have to learn how to deal
with this situation more properly.
I hope that the government and other entities do all they
can to help these persons. A lot of things can be done in
terms of placement, family assistance, etc.
But one point worth discussing is the proper attitude and
motivation those concerned should have when going through
this situation.
It cannot be denied that there is a lot of anxiety involved
here, a lot of fear, and even a lot of sense of loss and degradation.
It may not show, but there certainly is a lot of agony and
mental torture involved here.
This is where the faith in God and his providence may be
tested, then doubted, if not denied. This is the most unfortunate
development that can happen. This is where the real loss or
defeat of a person takes place.
In my dealings with these persons, this concern easily comes
to the fore. More than the economic or financial difficulty,
what bothers them most is that they sometimes feel their faith
is ebbing away.
That's when their sense of meaning in life is disappearing.
Even their sense of family and their sense of self-worth get
badly bashed. Many suffer from depression. Earnest prayers
are in order.
This is when conveying the virtue of hope and optimism is
most needed. And it should be done in such a way as to answer
the questions of those involved, questions that are often
not asked. It should be done in such a way that the fears
are removed, apprehensions and anxieties relieved.
This is no easy task. It certainly involves a lot of psychology,
of knowing the persons as they really are. But more than that,
it involves nothing less than authentic sanctity to effectively
give hope to those who are severely tried.
It is sanctity that is based on correct doctrine, so that
things could be properly clarified. Such as: any kind of work,
as long as it is not sinful, is just as pleasing to God and
helpful to all as anything else, even if humanly speaking
it may just be a lowly manual job.
This is a very important point to make because many are suffering
-- and I would say, unnecessarily -- because they feel they
have been degraded since they now feel forced to take a lowly
job.
Unfortunately, this is a common occurrence. Many fail to
realize that what is more important is the love that one puts
into one's work. This is what makes that work more pleasing
to God and helpful to others. It's is not how much money it
gives, nor the kind of estimation or reputation it generates,
that really matters.
I am sure that if only this point is properly understood
and lived, a big and crucial part of the problem our country
is facing today in these uncertain times would already be
taken care of.
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Flowing with the times
ONE skill we have to learn in these exciting times of ours
is how to blend the old and the new, the permanent and the
changing that our life necessarily involves.
This is part of the human condition that we have to learn
to handle properly. Otherwise, we get lost in the maze of
life. In short, we need to learn how to flow with the times
without getting lost.
This is an indispensable skill, made more urgent now when
the pace of development, motored by technological advances
that have provoked an explosion of data, information, and
many other new things, can be dizzying.
This is when we become most prone to confusion and to getting
entangled with all sorts of distractions, each one of them
absorbing and blinding, with strong reasons for us to pay
our attention to them.
This is when we tend to lose the proper use of reason, weakening
our grasp of the distinction between what is essential and
what is not, what is right and what is wrong, what is good
and what is evil.
This is when we easily get seduced by the allurements of
our impressions and perceptions, our feelings and passions.
This is when we are tempted to embark on an adventure of thrills
and excitement without giving due consideration to our objective
end.
The effects can be deadly. On the personal level, we can
expect harmful obsessions to develop, wasteful expense of
energy, talent and money, indifference to the spiritual reality,
etc. One impoverishes his understanding of reality when he
is held captive by distractions.
On the social level, there can be confusion and even the
loss of a people's cultural identity. Unleashed would be some
overwhelming homogenizing pressures that erase legitimate
differences of people.
What is worse is when the basic moral sense of the people
gets eroded. As they say, the tendency would be that the strong
and the rich get stronger and richer, while the weak and poor
get weaker and poorer, until they are eliminated. It's the
law of the jungle that gets to govern people's lives.
The Pope has been warning us about this very disturbing trend.
He has been speaking about the "culture of death"
that seems dominating many societies.
I am personally disturbed, for example, at the way some politicians
talk about routine corrupt practices that are taking place
both in government and in the private sector. They consider
these as something given.
Of course, I know we are in a very imperfect world. We just
have to learn how to contend with the many evil things that
are taking place around us. But rationalizing them is a different
story.
How can we flow with the times without getting lost in the
process?
Many things are needed. I just would like to mention what
I think are a few basic and indispensable requirements.
One would be the capacity to think, to use our reason, to
learn to distinguish between what is essential and what is
not. At the risk of being branded as pretentious, I think
that many people are thinking less and less, while they subject
themselves to their feelings more and more.
This situation has to be corrected. We should allow our reason
to guide our feelings, and not the other way around.
Otherwise, we can start rationalizing pornography, corruption,
contraception, same-sex marriage, divorce, abortion. In the
face of a rampant clamor for these vices and perversions,
without the proper use of reason, one could easily give in.
But more importantly, what is needed is that people return
to God and give to him the importance that can only belong
to him. The Gospel of Saint Matthew quotes our Lord:
"Seek ye therefore first the Kingdom of God, and his
justice, and all these things shall be added unto you."
(Mt. 6,33)
This Christian attitude is where the true source of wisdom
can be found. It is where we can easily detect what is truly
good from what may just appear as good.
It is where we can obtain a guidance that comes not only
from our own personal estimation of things, but also -- and
more importantly -- from a higher, infallible source.
It is where we can get to know what permanent structures
we should have in our lives -- in the form of traditions,
practices, virtues, habits, etc. -- as we go through the changing
conditions and circumstances of our world.
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