One remark that really bothers me is "You throw like a girl." What is that supposed to mean? Girls aren't athletic? Girls aren't strong? What?! Well whatever it is, it's probably wrong. I know lots of athletic girls. I even play tennis. And last year, the strongest person in class was a girl. She beat everyone in arm wrestling.

One other thing that bothers me is when I walk into a restaurant, all the waiters make compliments about how pretty I am. Unlike some girls, I'm not flattered. Am I supposed to be? If not, then what is my reaction? I don't know. My reaction is usually a weak smile.